Law of attraction · Law of Compensation · Manifesting · Spirituality

Are you pushing money away?

Have you ever wondered why the Law of Attraction doesn’t seem to be working for you? Why you are still struggling with your bills and never seem to have enough money?

If you answered yes, then let me ask you some more questions.

How do you think, talk and act when it comes to money?

Are you constantly thinking about how much things cost and telling yourself you can’t afford them?

Do you avoid certain shops because you think you can’t afford what’s for sale inside?

Are you watching the letterbox waiting for the ‘dreaded’ post to come and bring you more bills?

Yes?

Then you need to stop that right now!

By thinking, and acting, this way all you are doing is inviting more lack into your life! That’s right. You’re sitting at home sending out lovely little invites to the universe for all the horrible things you don’t really want in your life!

It’s like inviting your worst enemy to your birthday party, complaining that you had a horrible time because they were so mean to you all night and then inviting then to your next party!

Consider this, if you change your mindset and start to look at money differently what’s the worst that can happen? Your life stays the same and nothing changes? But seriously, that’s not going to happen! Things will change. you will change. Your life will change. Maybe not in a…..’OMG I won a gazillion, trillion pound on the lottery’ type way, but it will definitely change for the better.

The law of attraction sends back to you what you think about, what you talk about and what you feel. The law of attraction doesn’t know you don’t want more debt or more bills, all it knows is that you keep sending out signals of lack and it just sends you more of the same back. The Universe is thinking…….

“Hey this girl/guy must be really happy with the way things are for them. They can’t stop putting in requests for struggle. Well, let’s send her/him more of what they want!”

You can see where I’m going with this.

To get more money flowing into your life you have to think more abundantly!

Below are some pointers to help you on your way:

  1. STOP THINKING ABOUT LACK! Thinking this way only serves to attract more things into your life that cause feelings of lack or not having enough. Instead focus on feelings of abundance and having more than enough.
  2. STOP TALKING ABOUT NOT HAVING ENOUGH! Everything we talk about increases the vibration we send out to the universe. When we talk about lack we are literally putting in a verbal order for more of the same. It’s like going up to the drive-through and asking for “more debt please!” ER, NO!
  3. START THINKING ABOUT MONEY IN A POSITIVE WAY. When you think about money, think about it in terms of having more than enough to go round. Think about it as if you can buy whatever you want, whenever you want. Think of money as something that you don’t need to worry about and something that is ever flowing effortlessly into your life.
  4. SAY “I CAN AFFORD TO BUY WHATEVER I WANT”. When you see something you like, say to yourself “I can afford that.” Don’t question it, just know that you can have anything you desire.
  5. YOU DESERVE IT! Get it into your head that you deserve to live a prosperous and abundant life. It’s nothing to be ashamed of and it’s nothing more than you deserve.
  6. IT’S MINE ALREADY. You must believe that you can have anything you want. You must believe you have it already. Having thoughts and feelings that it is not here yet will only attract more not having it yet. You must think, and feel, like it’s already here and the universe will conspire to ensure it comes.
  7. HAVE GRATITUDE FOR WHAT YOU ALREADY HAVE. This is so important! To attract more into your life you must show gratitude for what you already have. If you look at what you have with feelings of it not being enough then you will never have enough. I saw this on one of my apps today and thought you might like it.

“Observe a person’s car and you will learn something about it’s owner. The cars that are sparkling clean are evidence that their owners appreciate them. The cars that are very dirty and messy are not being appreciated. One person is attracting even better cars, the other is attracting lesser cars. Appreciation for the things you have is using the law of attraction intelligently.”

  1. GIVE GENEROUSLY. Give what you can. Be it your time, your services, give love & appreciation, give your unwanted items to charity, even if you just put £1 in a charity collection or give it to a homeless person or busker it starts the flow of money.
  2. ALWAYS GIVE MORE IN TERMS OF VALUE than another can give you and you will always be rewarded. For example; I sold my daughters old bike today. It was in very good condition and a very good bike. I sold it for a very small price, much less than it was worth, but it was enough for me and what I wanted the money for. The lady who bought the bike, however, bought it for her daughter. The bike will last her many years and means that she can join with her family in regular bike rides and outings that she has struggled with up until now as her old bike was not suitable. Therefore I gave more in terms of value than I received in money. I know the universe will reward me.

The sooner you change your mindset, the sooner your financial situation will change. I know it’s hard to change the way you have been programmed to think but it is possible and the power is in your hands. You can start today to change your life for the better. The more you think of money in terms of abundance, the more money will flow effortlessly into your life and the more you will have to continue to think this way.

Say affirmations:

“I have more than enough money.”

“I love money and money loves me.”

“Everything I need comes to me easily and effortlessly.”

“Every day I am more and more abundant.”

“I attract more money every day.”

“I have more than enough to go around.”

Try it for yourself. Not only will you feel better about your current situation because you will be focusing on the things you have in your life already that you are grateful for but you will notice the universal shift as your circumstances begin to change.

Try making notes every time money comes into your life. You will be surprised at how quickly it all mounts up when you really start to take notice. If you get a money off voucher at the supermarket or find some loose change down the side of the sofa, maybe a friend will treat you to a coffee or you get something ‘buy one get one free’. All these manifestations of money being gifted to you by the universe add up and it’s surprising by how much when you really start to take notice. The more you notice and show gratitude, the more will flow into your life and before you know it money will no longer be something to worry and stress about, it will be something the flows effortlessly into your life in greater and greater quantities each day.

Let me know how you get on.

Love and happiness

Catherine

Gratitude · Law of attraction · Manifesting

Manifesting tips & tricks to boost your progress.

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I have been dreaming a lot recently about writing this post but, as is the nature of a Virgo, I’ve been procrastinating about it! Mostly because I often lack self confidence, a trait I really need to work on. Anyway, today a fellow blogger ask for some pointers as they were stuck with something they’ve been trying to manifest. I realised that this was another gentle ‘shove’ from the universe not to ignore my dreams and intuition and crack on with writing the post! So here goes………..

Back to basics:

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Rule no one when trying to manifest anything is to first visualise what you want. Now visualisation is different for everyone. Some people find it really easy to summon up vivid, clear pictures of exactly what they want as if it’s on a TV screen in their head. Others, myself included, can’t always do this. That doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong! It simple means you have a different way of visualising. I like to sit quietly, where I won’t be disturbed, close my eyes a try to ‘picture’ what it is I’m trying to manifest. Like I said I don’t get clear pictures in my head, it’s more of a faded water colour floating in the background, but I know it’s there and what it is.

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The next step is to connect with your  vision, whether it’s a vivid image or just a blur, now feel it. Feel how you would if you already had it in your life. Feel the excitement, the joy, the love and gratitude. Hold that feeling, let it build inside you. Feel your vibration getting higher and your energy growing. Believe it is yours. You have already manifested it. Feel it. Now, let it go. Release it to the Universe and trust it’s on its way, like an online order if you like. All you have to do now is hold that feeling of gratitude you have and know it’s coming.

If you start to doubt, just sit again with your vision until you get the feeling back again. It is this feeling of gratitude that keeps you on the same vibrational frequency as the thing you are trying to manifest.  By staying on the same frequency you can do nothing else but attract it towards you. It is not only the law of the universe but also the law of physics!

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Vision boards: 

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Vision boards are so much fun and a great manifesting tool. I like to do a new one every spring to symbolise new beginnings but you can create a vision board any time. You can also add to them or remove things as you go. All you need to create your own vision board is –

  • Craft card or a flattened cardboard box, you could also use an old cork board if you prefer
  • Some magazines and/or pictures you’ve printed off of the internet
  • Glue, tape or pins
  • Coloured pens/pencils
  • Stickers, glitter & anything else you fancy to pretty up your board

All you need to do now is get creative! Find images and quotes that inspire you and represent what it is you want to achieve. Have fun with it. Don’t limit yourself. Look for things you think are impossible, remember this is about manifesting whatever your heart desires not just putting a few pictures down of things you are already likely to achieve. That does not mean however that you can’t add those things to your board it just means you need to think outside the box.

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Nothing was ever achieved without someone first thinking it was impossible.

Focus boards:

A focus board is the same as a vision board but instead of being a collection of all different things you want to manifest it focuses on just one thing. Be it a new home or a new job or a new car. Your focus board will be all about this one particular thing. If it’s a new car put the exact colour, the alloys, the interior, words to describe how it feels when you drive it, what it smells like, the engine size………you get the picture.

Remember your vision board should be somewhere you can see it every day. When you look at it it should evoke feelings of excitement at its impending arrival!

Gratitude book:

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My gratitude book is one of my favourite manifesting tools. I write in it every day, normally before bed so I go to bed full of gratitude for the blessings I have received throughout the day. The trick with this is to write in all the things you are grateful for that day, even the tiny things, you’ll be surprised at how much you have to be thankful for. I also write my gratitude intentions, all the things I want to manifest as if I have already received them. See my previous post ‘Get your gratitude on’ for more on this tool.

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Remember that gratitude is the key to the Law of Attraction.

Reiki box:

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This one is new to me. You can now get a Reiki box app for you smart phone. You can add and remove intentions as you like then open it daily to send Reiki to your intentions. Intentions are written in the present tense as if they are already here, giving thanks and gratitude. It’s a great little app to keep you focused when on the move. You can also have a Reiki box in your home and write your intentions on a piece of paper. Like I said this one is still new to me and I’m still learning.

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I hope you find these tools helpful. Feel free to share some of your own manifesting techniques as we can all do with a helping hand sometimes.

If you would like to contact me to discuss anything further you can either use the comment section below or email me via the contact section.

Love and happiness

Catherine xx

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Inbox motivation 

This arrived in my inbox this morning. I get a ‘Secret Affirmation’ every morning. This one seemed particularly relevant this morning as I had been talking with another blogger about some manifesting difficulties they were having and had decided to write a post on tips for manifesting when this popped up!

Seems like a sign to me 😀 Look out for my post on manifesting. In the mean time have a wonderful day 💖

Love and happiness

Catherine xx

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Manifesting challenge

Morning all, I hope you are all well this morning. For those of you who read my previous post Manifesting challenge  I would like to thank all those who emailed, commented and got in touch.

I just wanted to let you all know that the Robin I visualised for my ‘lucky’ manifestation came to visit me this morning while I was working in my garden. I had totally put the challenge to the back of my mind and was not even thinking about it this morning. I was tending some flower beds when along he came and sat right near me on a stack of old logs I have. I was so pleased to see him and felt really excited that he had privileged me with a visit knowing that I had visualised him coming. I was so excited that I fumbled for my phone to take a picture for you and knocked some plants over, startling him and causing him to fly away. I am planning on being in the garden all day and am hoping he comes back to see me so I can get a picture for you all.

I hope your manifesting is going well and you are having a wonderful Monday.

Love and happiness

Catherine xx

Law of attraction · Manifesting · Positive

Manifesting challenge!

Hi everyone. I hope I find you all well. I’ve been wanting to write this post for a while but like the Virgo I am I have been procrastinating due to lack of self belief. I don’t know why I do it to myself as it goes against everything I teach others. I guess that’s another of my limiting traits, I can easily see the best in others and help them work on their weaknesses to turn them into strengths but when it comes to myself I throw all that I have learnt out of the window and revert back to limiting beliefs! 

So because of my inability to take my own advice I thought we could do a little manifesting challenge together. I’ve done this before with people I work with and it has always given them the lift they needed to move forward and try to manifest bigger and better changes in their lives. Sometimes we just need a little ‘proof’ to reignite our faith.

So, let’s go!

STEP 1: Think of something that you want to manifest. Something small like a lucky penny or a four leaf clover, maybe a white feather or a Robin, something that resembles luck or spiritual guidance. Close your eyes and visualise your item. Imagine what it looks like, what it feels like or sounds like. Imagine how you will feel when you see it. Just spend a few minutes focusing on whatever it is you have chosen.

STEP 2: Let it go. Send it out into the Universe and trust that it will come back to you. Know that it is already manifested and just waiting for you to cross its path. Release any thoughts of doubt, just let go………..

STEP 3: Go about your business as usual. Forget all about the challenge. Let the Universe do it’s work.

STEP 4: Use the comments section below or the email address in my contact section to let me know when you cross paths with what it is you visualised. Let me know how it made you feel knowing that you manifested that into your life. What’s next for you? Has this little challenge restored your faith in the Law of Attraction?

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Happy manifesting everyone. Have faith, believe, receive, achieve!

Love and happiness

Catherine xx

PS. Just for the record, I have chosen a Robin. We don’t see many this time of year and to me they represent our loved ones that have crossed over. They represent a message of hope and love, and sometimes, that’s all you need to restore your faith.

Gratitude · Learning · Love · Manifesting · Positive · The Law of Polarity · The Law of Relativity · The Twelve Laws of the Universe

The Twelve Laws of the Universe #5

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Hello again everyone. I hope I find you all well?

I hope you have all had a chance to read the other four posts in this series, if not you can catch up on them using the links at the end of this post. I have had some really positive emails and comments about this series so far and look forward to hearing more from you all.

In today’s post I will be looking at the Law of Relativity and the Law of Polarity. Some of you may already be familiar with these Laws but for those of you who are not let us explore further.

The Law of Relativity

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The Law of Relativity teaches us to compare our problems to the problems of others. What may appear like a catastrophic event to us, when compared to the problem of another, suddenly pails into insignificance. Things begin to be put into perspective. As my mum always said:

“There is always someone worse off.”

Now I know that sounds harsh, looking for someone who is worse off than you to make yourself feel better, but that is not the meaning of this Law. The point is that no matter how bad a situation seems to you, there will always be someone in a worse situation, thus making your problem seem not so bad after all.

For example; we look at our busy lives and complain that we have little time to socialise or relax, yet when compared to someone in one of the third world countries, for example, you begin to realise how lucky we are in our western society. Everything is relative. In our modern world we have become so obsessed with technology and material possessions, we have lost site of the simple things in life and forgotten how blessed we are to have running water, food in our bellies and a roof over our head. We are not in war torn cities, fearing for our lives, not knowing where our next meal is coming from. Our main concern is that we might lose internet connection for a few minutes!!!

Everything only exists because it is made real by it’s comparison to something else:

  • Light vs dark
  • Hot vs cold
  • Good vs evil
  • Big vs small

It is all relative. It is all about how we relate it to something else.

You may think you don’t have enough money until you compare yourself to someone else. To them you may appear rich as they have far less than you. The Law of Relativity says we should stop comparing ourselves to those who have far more than us because this only serves to make us have feelings of lack. These feelings of lack are sent out into the Universe as vibrations of what we want more of so we will be sent more things to make us feel we don’t have enough (bills, debt etc.)

By comparing ourselves to those less fortunate than us we begin to appreciate how lucky we really are and how blessed our lives are. We begin to be grateful for what we do have, therefore sending out feelings of abundance and gratitude. Our vibrations become positive and the Universe will send us more things to be grateful for, more abundance!

This Law reminds us that what we believe we have is all relative in comparison to someone or something else. We can use it to our advantage or to our disadvantage, depending on our outlook.

There will always be someone who has more than you, someone who can run faster than you, is smarter than you. But in comparison there will always be someone who has less than you, runs slower than you or is not as smart as you. Look at what you have and be thankful. Be positive about your situation. Look for the good in everything.

It’s all about how you look at the world around you!

If you are grateful for what you have now you will always have enough because the Universe will ensure you always have things to be grateful for.

Check out my Friday Share from 05/05/2017 for a little reminder.

The Law of Polarity

Nothing is one sided. There are two sides, or poles, to everything. Everything has an opposite. The difference in between the two extremes is called polarity.

Everything has an opposite.

The Law of Polarity states that opposites are just different manifestations of the same thing.

Sir Isaac Newton said that:

“every action has and equal, and opposite, reaction”

The purpose of the Universe is equilibrium and synchronicity. It is said that love and hate are actually the same emotion. For how can you hate someone you have never truly loved. Only someone you love can stir such emotion in you to cause you to hate them because only the actions of someone you love could hurt you so deeply that the love could turn to hate.

The Law of Polarity enables us to experience life at it’s fullest. Without experiencing one thing how can we appreciate another?

How can you appreciate heat if you have never experienced cold?

How can you appreciate abundance if you have never experienced struggle?

  • Love vs hate
  • Hot vs cold
  • Good vs bad
  • Big vs small
  • Failure vs success

All things work together. Without one you cannot have the other. Therefore, all things, good and bad, success and failure, abundance and austerity must work for the higher good.

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Sometimes you have to experience adversity to appreciate prosperity, sadness to appreciate joy. The Law is there to teach us. To help us learn and discover.

In every failure we find success

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If Thomas Edison had not failed he would never have invented the light bulb and we’d all be sitting in the dark! If it had not been dark he would never have tried in the first place!

Every situation is only ‘good’or ‘bad’ by how we perceive it. Something you consider to be bad another may think is good. Take a step back, look again, is it as bad as you first thought? Is there a lesson to be learnt?

Every one of us is sent a series of lessons. We must learn from these lessons before we can move forward. If we do not learn then the lesson will keep manifesting in different ways until we learn what is has been sent to teach us.

Look for the positive in EVERY situation!

By looking for the good in all situations we will learn our lessons quicker and progress faster.

The same is true for people. Always look for the good in everyone. Positive thoughts create positive energy and send out good vibrations to the Universe and as we know the Universe then sends back more things to be positive about!

You can see that, as with the other Laws we have looked at, there are strong similarities in these two Laws. The general thread through all the Laws is the same. It is about working with all the Laws to achieve our dreams. At first this sounds daunting but as you learn more about each Law you realise that they are all interconnected and work seamlessly together.Please check out the other posts in this series below:

The Twelve Laws of the Universe #1

The Twelve Laws of the Universe #2

The Twelve Laws of the Universe #3

The Twelve Laws of the Universe #4

Love and happiness

Catherine xx

 

Law of Compensation · Law of Perpetual Tansmutation of Energy · Manifesting · Positive · The power of thought · The Twelve Laws of the Universe

The Twelve Laws of the Universe #4

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I hope you have all the enjoyed the series so far? If you haven’t had a chance to read the previous three posts yet you can use the links below to catch up. Please feel free to comment as your feedback is always welcomed and much appreciated. My intention with this series is to introduce you to all twelve laws of the universe (if you are not already familiar with them) and show you how they are all as equally important as the Law of Attraction when manifesting our dreams.

In this weeks post I am going to look at the Law of Compensation and the Law of Perpetual Transmutation of Energy (I know, it’s a bit of a mouthful but really not as scary as it sounds!)

The Law of Compensation

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Ralph Waldo Emerson said:

“Each person is compensated in a like manner for that which they have contributed.”

The Law of compensation is also known as the Law of Reaping and Sowing. Simply put, you get back what you put in.

If you are a happy person who always smiles and tries to do good for others around you, you will ultimately attract other people who are happy and good natured. The more you are happy and do good for others the more of the same you will attract. You will attract things into your life that are positive. On the flip side, if you are someone who is grumpy and constantly moaning you attract people who are also grumpy and moaning or you will ‘inflict’ you grumpiness onto others until they become grumpy and moany. Soon you will be surrounded by lots of grumpy, moany people who generate things to moan about!

The way you behave impacts on what you attract, or are compensated with. Therefore, say, think, act, how you want others to speak to you, think about you, act towards you. Give out what you want back. Approach everything from a place of positivity and love so that what you are sending out can only come back to you in such a manner.

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Below are some ways you can to use the Law of Compensation:

  • Give what you have: Now I don’t mean leave yourself with nothing to give to another. I also don’t mean this merely in monetary terms. But always try to give to others and not squander everything for yourself. Be generous within your means.
  • Be what you want to see come back to you: If you want people to treat you with kindness and respect them make sure that is how you treat others.
  • Be charitable/volunteer: This is a great way of giving of yourself to help others.
  • Be productive: Don’t sit around waiting for someone else to do it for you, get up off your butt and get it done! You will never get anything back if you are not prepared to put something in!

“Give to every man more than you can take from him” 

Wallace D Wattles – The Science of Getting Rich

This quote from one of my favourite books, The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D Wattles, is a clear indications of the Law of Compensation. Wallace D Wattles is not saying that you must always give in terms of money but ensure that whatever you take from someone you give more in return in terms of use value.

A great example of this is given in chapter six of his book when he describes selling a piece of artwork to an Eskimo in exchange for furs. He states that he has wronged him for the Eskimo has no use for fine art, but, he says, if he instead gives him a gun in exchange for the furs then the Eskimo has use for that and so he has given more in terms of ‘use value’. Think about it.

The Law of Compensation is not just about monetary rewards, it is about any blessing we receive in return for out actions, words, thoughts or feelings. Look out for the blessings that are bestowed upon you and be grateful for them. Look at what is around you. Your family, friends, loved ones, your relationships, your home, material possessions and so forth. See how abundant you truly are. It’s amazing how blessed we all are when we really look around us. If you don’t like what you see then you need to look inside yourself and see what you have put out, what have you sown?

You don’t get something for nothing!

If you want to increase what you get back try these tips below:

  • Think abundantly
  • Be grateful, show gratitude
  • Give your all. Always do the best you can in whatever you do.
  • Take action with a good heart. Do not give just to receive for that sends out low vibrations and negative energy and you will receive the same back. If you cannot give with a good heart then don’t bother!
  • Pay you bills without fear. Do not fear spending money as this sends the Universe messages of lack and that is what will come back to you.

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Understand that every gain has a loss and every loss has a gain. We must be contented and grateful and not live in envy. The rich man may appear to have everything but what has he given up to achieve what he has? How many super, successful pop stars do we see that ‘appear’ to have it all then we see them sat on some chat show sofa talking about their lack of privacy and how their whole life is laid bare for criticism or their inability to have a meaningful relationships because they do not know who they can trust. I am not saying that we must not strive to achieve or manifest our dreams. It is good to want more than we have. We must, however, be grateful for what we have and understand that in receiving we must also give something up.

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Your whole life is centred around the spirit of giving.

In short, what you put out into the Universe you get back.

The Law of Perpetual Transmutation of Energy

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All of us has the ability to change our lives by changing our energy or vibration. In my previous post 9 Ways to raise your vibration I give you some tips on how to do this. Thankfully positive energy is far stronger than negative energy and has the power to transform any negative vibes you have been sending out. Therefore, transmuting the negative energy.

Energy is constantly moving. Wallace D Wattles says that it moves in and out of form. He also says that as we exhaust one form it makes room for another.

“Nature is an inexhaustible storehouse of riches; the supply will never run short.” Wallace D Wattles – The Science of Getting Rich

Energy is limitless!

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We already know that our thoughts are energy. Therefore our thoughts will eventually appear as physical things.

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This is why it is so important to keep your thoughts positive. Focus on the things you want to manifest for they can only, by Universal Law, become real in the physical world.

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The Universe does not judge your thoughts. If you are constantly having negative thoughts and thinking about the things you don’t want the Universe does not know that you don’t want these things and will begin to manifest what you are thinking about and feeling. You will receive more of what you don’t want!

But, like I said earlier, positive thoughts and feelings, positive energy, are far stronger than negative so if you start to notice negative situations, circumstances and things manifesting in your live change the way you think and feel. Change your energy from negative to positive. Lift your vibration.

Here are some tips to help you with this Law:

  • Make what you want your most dominant thought. This is what this Law responds to most
  • Keep your energy positive and your vibration high
  • Use positive affirmations
  • Visualise what you want to manifest
  • Create a vision board (I will be doing a post on this soon so)
  • Practice gratitude
  • Be mindful of your thoughts and feelings

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This Law tells us that energy is constantly moving into physical form and that physical form is the manifestation of the non-physical (thought).

Our thoughts create feelings that build ideas, these ideas lead us into action, actions manifest our ideas into physical being.

Can you see how all the Laws intertwine and must be used together for us to manifest our dreams. If you don’t like the life you have you must change it. Only you can do that. To do that you must first start with MIND.

Love and happiness

Catherine xx